Friends / friendship

People around you will say “you need to make your friend wisely”. But I am against this statement because when two people firstly meet eachother at someplace like workplace, school, college etc. then they will mostly stick with them and the chemistry will slowly start to grow between them. You don’t have that much time to recognize s/he is good or not at the first time. After you spend a certain time together by formulation crew of some people with the same kind of vibes like yours, y’all will start to hang out and do lots of kinds of stuff. Then after y’all can go through ups downs also because it’s the rule of life. Some might do conflict and end up not talking with each other by generating ego issues and some might pretend to be nice in front of you and remember that pain you have given to them. Because in the friendship the main and important thing you have to have loyalty and trust among each other. When you broke someone’s trust then certain barriers will start to take place like not talking that often etc. So, try to figure out the problems and try to sort them out with the help of each other. And don’t try to think bad about them because they all are friends after all. There is a saying “If you can’t be nice to others then don’t be bad to others too”. So, try to keep your bond strong with each other. And mainly try to maintain a positive attitude and don’t give it chance to turn into negativity. And at last, if there is no conflict between your friends then it’s not a real friendship but you don’t have to take things serious from that conflict.